
Hi, I'm Hailey. Since 2018, I've been holding deep transformational processes for women so they can lead their lives from their souls - and stop repeating patterns that don't reflect the truth of who they are.
I'm in alchemist at heart. I weave shit into gold, and teach women how to do the same.
Here, you'll learn how to work with your unique system toward the emotional and energetic mastery that is your birthright.

The only thing I've really ever wanted was love. And it was usually volatile, dysfunctional, and devastating. I decided from sheer force of will that an abusive relationship would be my rock bottom. I was coming to understand that it wasn't my fault... but I also knew, deep in my cells, that it was my responsibility.
That's what began my journey of awakening, truth, and self-mastery. I had no intention of being a teacher myself. I just wanted to feel incontrovertibly WHOLE in my own body. I wanted to feel SAFE in the world. I wanted to land so deeply inside of myself that I could never leave again.
So I made self love my spiritual practice. I made relationships my yoga mat. I spent years journeying my inner world, bringing light to the dark corners, clearing out the cobwebs, and turning over stones. In the process, I healed in the way I related to men, sex, food, money, anxiety, my body, boundaries, my family system. What I was doing became so much bigger than just being about love.
It became about unconditional freedom. The kind that can never be taken away because it lives within.
I kept going deeper. I've studied under many incredible teachers and eventually found myself working toward a coaching certification sort of by accident. It was a soul calling moment.
Since 2018, I've held women while they heal, transform, and foundationally unfurl. The work is deep, pristine, and strangely gentle for how powerful it is.
This is for women who are ready for foundational embodied homecoming, not to absorb more information and try to apply it in their minds. Here we do descension, and mastery. I'm allergic to trends and performance and uppity spiritual bullshit.
You come here for the real thing. We journey with incredible depth, honesty, and humor.
Come for a taste, for self-paced journeying, for monthly live experiences, or for the deepest dive available.
Below is the menu of current ways to go deeper.

A standalone teaching on boundaries, sovereignty, and the sacred no.
In this masterclass, receive the less-often taught codes of unconditional self-holding, and what it really takes to walk through your life as a woman who is fully her own.
Watch on your own time. Return as often as you need to. Yours forever.
$22· one time, yours forever



The medicine for the woman who is ready to plug in on an ongoing basis.
Once a month, we meet live for group coaching with the women in the field. Between calls, you have the full archive of every teaching and call from this container, a private digital community space to witness and be witnessed, and Your Selfish No as your welcome.
Stay for a season. Stay for years. The Inner Compass holds you for as long as you need it to.
$47/month · 3-month minimum, then cancel anytime
The body of work at the heart of everything I teach. The full curriculum of sovereignty, self-mastery, and unconditional self-love, all in self-paced format.
This is the medicine for the woman ready to walk through the foundational teachings in her own time, in her own rhythm, in a devotional yearlong journey into herself. Selfish is the rich molten center of this work.
$949 · or 12 monthly payments of $87

The deepest container I hold. Intimate, ongoing, foundational. For the woman who has walked enough of her path to know that one-on-one mentorship and a small circle of women going this deep with her is the next inevitable step.
We meet privately for 1:1 coaching, and also monthly as a high level group of no more than five. The work is precise, the holding is uncompromising, and the pace is set by what is actually happening in your life.
When you feel called, the way in is through a Desire Mapping Session - a private hour to take the full measure of where you are, and to feel whether Mastery is the right next chapter for you.

Life is not random, or a coincidence. It’s mirroring you, and teaching you, and making offerings to you for your becoming. Life is your teacher, and if you refuse to be her student, you will feel powerless inside of your life instead of stepping into your destiny as a creator.
There are two ways to “do” life: from your mind, or from deeper truth. Your mind may have its ideas about who you should be, and what should happen, and what it’s all supposed to look like. Your mind has received messaging, conditioning, and inherited expectations about what’s good, and okay, and safe. But leading from the mind is limiting, and leaves no room for your genuine unfolding. When you lead from deeper truth, you begin a practice of new listening with what’s happening underneath all of those layers. This is where you can begin to create your life from your soul.
The real rewards in life come from living from your soul, not your mind. When you live from the mind, you get what what you want looks like, not what you thought it would get you. When you live from your soul, you are in direct contact with the felt sense of what you're seeking, and the form falls into place around it.
Honesty is the highest value. Real freedom is defined by the ability to be fully honest with yourself, and with others, with nothing to hide, protect, or reject.
In order to be honest with yourself, and with others, you have to build a foundation of trust and love inside your own body. This comes from genuine safety, trust, and devotion. Never from force.
Your body is one of the most sacred and primary tools you were given to know honesty and truth in this life. Its needs, feelings, and patterns are not an obstacle to your path. They are a compass to use in your travels. In order to use it skillfully, you have to learn discernment and untangle your alarm systems.
Desire is the language of your soul. What you want, not from your mind but from the place that lives deeeeep in the quiet dark of your belly, is bigger than you. What it says is your path whispering to you.
Desire might lead you to what you want. But it will always lead you to what you need. The spiritual path of Desire looks like trusting the whispers to bring you to each next stepping stone, while being unattached to the outcome. When you follow Desire and get what you want, it's the cherry on top.
It is always so much more about who you become in the process, and so much less about what you “get” out of it.
There is nothing, and there could never be anything inside of you unworthy of love, respect, and compassion. You are not special enough to be broken or different than everyone else. You are human, and that means you are an incontrovertible part of an interconnected web weaving you in connection with your ancestors, with the children of the future, and with everyone who walks this planet beside you. You are worthy, and enough, and gloriously un-special.
Ironically, transformation happens through love and acceptance. You cannot change anything inside of you through shame, dislike, or force. Only through the alchemical portal of total acceptance for what is.
Change is not only possible, but it’s the only constant. You can either lean in, and let life move you, or you can stay rigid and break in the wind.
There are a million and fifteen things you can’t control. But you can control you. And you are half of every interaction you have, every relationship you are a part of, every imprint on the world you make. By changing yourself, and your relationship with the world, you change the world.
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